The long road to the isle of Zanzibar
--rahul
We'll jump and we'll see
. . . on a Thursday night, in the dusty town of Arusha, you come upon an evening screening of "The Big Lebowski", one of the great cinematic achievements of our time, at the town's Natural History Museum. We love the Swahili culture.
--meg and rahul
It was a great trip. We got to see some "bleeding-heart" gelada baboons, so named because they have a big patch of skin on their chest that actually changes color (like a mood ring) depending on their, how do I say this, level of sexual excitement. Seeing these beautiful animals while hearing that global warming is wiping out their habitat and they'll probably be extinct in 50 years was an emotional moment for me, since I've loved monkeys ever since I was a kid and I've been getting angrier and angrier about my President's severely flawed environmental policy over the last few months. After having read a couple days earlier that Karl Rove had finally been outed as the person who sold-out a CIA agent in order to punish the one person in the Bush administration willing to speak the truth about Iraq's lack of weapons of mass destruction, I started having fantasies about putting George and Karl in a room with 20 bleeding-heart baboons, locking the door, and letting them "negotiate" the next Kyoto Protocol.
Then I realized that after being away from Meg for 6 days the main fantasy I was having involved a fat Republican and the word "protocol." The conclusion: I have issues.
Anyways, we made it up to 4000m, saw some jackals and ibex and all kinds of birds who's names I've already forgotten. The views were spectacular, and the people we met kept saying to us, "Tell people in America that this is what Ethopia really looks like." So there you are. Ethiopia, or at least the part we're in right now, is lush and full of rolling green hills, potato farms, and remarkably friendly people. It looks like Ireland, but with more black people.
--rahul
When Meg and I left on this trip, we got a massive amount of support and good wishes, and a lot of long hugs as people asked us to promise to take care of ourselves and each other. Every once and a while, we'd dig a little deeper with the people we loved to find out what they were most worried about on our year away. The answer was always the same: Africa.
It's easy to understand why: weird tropical diseases, HIV-infection rates wiping out a generation, and widespread poverty ripping through a continent that's still struggling with the arbitrary borders and hierarchies created by colonialism. I'd be freaked out if someone I loved was going there too! And in case we needed any reminder of the horrors of darkest Africa, Meg and I went to an old Italian theater to watch a bootlegged DVD of Hotel Rwanda last Friday. I like to think of myself as a seasoned traveller who treats all people the same, but I gotta say, after watching a story about one million Rwandans massacring each other over the course of a few months, I found myself looking over my shoulder a bit more often as we walked home at night through the streets of Asmara.
I get angry at myself when I think about this, wondering if I'm letting embedded racism trump the overwhelmingly positive experience we've had in Africa so far. Though we've been on the continent for less than a month, we already have a dozen stories of kindness shown to us by strangers here. The random Egyptian man who spoke no English but saw we had given away the last of our Egyptian pounds getting to the wrong terminal for our flight, and picked us up and drove us 5 miles late at night for free . Our new friend Eden who happened to spend some time in Houston (and met a friend of Meg's Dad while she was there) putting us up for free when we arrived in Asmara and taking care of us for weeks. Tesfalidet, a 25 year-old English teacher, who met me on a bus heading to the town of Keren and changed all his plans so that he could show me around "his town" for the day, insisting on paying for my lunch and drinks along the way, asking only that I send him a letter once I got back to America. You ride the streets of Eritrea and you see burnt-out tanks and armored vehicles littering the ravines, reminders of a nasty war with Ethiopia and its allies that ended (mostly) not so long ago, only to give way to a famine from which people are still recovering. But Asmara feels safer than San Francisco, and the people we see around us, who must know that we're carrying enough money on our bodies to feed a village for years, are gracious and kind and take care of us.
And yet I watch Hotel Rwanda, I read about Darfur, I listen to radio reports about Liberia or Angola or the Ivory Coast or the Congo, and it scares me. I think about our upcoming destinations and worry about what strange African danger is lurking around the corner. And that's healthy, I suppose. It's better to be cautious, and I shouldn't generalize from my limited experience here. After all, I promised my momma I'd come home in one piece, and thinking that Nairobi will be safe because of some good experiences we've had in Asmara is kind of like saying that London is safe because we met some really nice people in Finland once.
But the fact is (and I know this won't make our moms feel any better), every day we're in situations where if someone really wanted to rob us (or worse) and take advantage of our white skin and inability to speak the local language, they could. Yet, every day we watch strangers bend over backwards to make our travels comfortable. And we try to be smart and accept their generosity without putting ourselves in dangerous situations. Yesterday, we spent ten minutes in a van, driven by a Eritrean and filled with 20 men from Yemen, arguing about the fare we were being charged (the amount we were sparring over - $2). As the Eritrean got angrier and angrier with us, one of the Yemenis stepped in, bridged the language gap and negotiated a compromise. We made friends with him over the rest of the drive as he proudly recited the English alphabet and celebrated the fact that his friend sitting next to him was the same age as Meg. Then, as we reached his stop and he got out of the van, he invited us for a ride with him and his friends in his fishing boat out in the Red Sea. Meg and I looked at each other, wanting to go, wanting the adventure and to trust in this man's kindness, and we said no. We couldn't make the leap and take the risk with a stranger who spoke very little English, putting our money and passports and lives in his hands when no one knew where we were. But I wonder now, would we have gone if it had been a nice white Aussie man making the offer? Probably.
The first priority for us is to come home safe. And I have no doubt that we made the smart decision, and we'll do the smart thing again, probably many times more before we leave Africa. But after all the goodness that we see around us in Africa, I wish that the horrifying images from Hotel Rwanda (and virtually every article on Africa you see in an American paper) weren't so overwhelming, and that the smart decision would also be the right decision, the one where you trust the people around you, even in Africa.
--rahul
A couple days ago, we passed the halfway point of our year-long around-the-world trip. Whoa. Well, actually, due to the unpredictability of Meg's upcoming medical residency interviews in December, we're probably more than halfway, but since July 3rd was exactly six months after the day we left Berkeley and boarded a plane, we're going with it! It's hard for us to believe that it's been half a year since we were able to eat burritos in the Mission, run in Golden Gate Park and flip on a cell phone anytime we wanted to talk to the people we love. Time's been moving incredibly fast for us, and we're going to use the next few days to take a deep breath and try to get our heads around the fact that we'll be home soon (okay Mommas Cathy and Madhavi, maybe not THAT soon, but it feels soon to us).
Meg started her medical rotation yesterday in Asmara, Eritrea, and Rahul's got a lot of time on his hands for the next week till he takes off to meet his buddy Zanja in Ethiopia. So while Meg's working, Rahul's gonna try to put up a new blog post every day to catch up on some of the stories that got lost in the spring when we were between internet cafes.
More importantly, we're planning a huge (some might even call it"massive-ass") karaoke bash in New York City, and we're hoping you'll all be there. It's on Saturday, August 27th and we've given the day it's very own blog. If you're anywhere on the Eastern seaboard, or if you're down to fly out to spend a weekend with us in the NYC, please come join us! It's our one chance to see all of you this year as we pass through America on the way from Nairobi to Oaxaca. No singing talent necessary - just enthusiasm and an undying love of Bon Jovi. Head to http://tothekaraoke.blogspot.com/ and let us know if you'll be there!
For now, here's some highlights from the last 6 months. We did these separately, so there may be some overlap (but hopefully not too much, since we're trying to end this trip with mostly separate identities). Hope you like it:
The Top 5 Moments So Far- Rahul:
The Top 5 moments - Meg:
The most embarrassing moment - Meg:
That would have to be my infamous first day of medicine in India. For the full story, see the "My 15 Seconds of Fame" post in the blog sometime in early February. I can only bring myself to put it in writing once.
The most embarrassing moment - Rahul:
Every time I have to show my passport to an immigration official and he looks at me, clearly thinking "Jesus man, how could you possibly allow that photo to represent you for the next 10 years!"
The best food from each country - Rahul:
Balinese mee goreng, Indian chana masala, Nepali banana smoothies, Tibetan momo dumplings, Turkish yogurt(!) and dark Efes beer, Italian everything (but the red wine and nutella gelato were life-changing), and Egyptian baba ghanouj and fresh mango juice.
The best food from each country - Meg:
Bali: red, spiky gummy fruit thingies that we ate after biking in the mid-day sun; India: Tie: chana masala and Veena-mami's chai tea; Nepal: the best banana milkshakes in the world, from a little restaurant that the Israeli's put us onto; Tibet: momos (steamed veggie dumpling-type things); Turkey: mezzes (a mixed plate of spiced yogurt, eggplant salads, etc); Italy: everything, but nothing beats the gelato; Egypt: fresh mango juice from the juice shops that we somehow failed to discover until the end of the trip (but we made up for lost time by drinking it by the liter)
If I was in America for a day, here's what I'd do - Rahul:
If I could spend a few days in America right now, here's what I'd do - Meg:
When We Turn on the IPod, the First Songs We Listen To Are - Meg:
When We Turn on the IPod, the First Songs We Listen To Are - Rahul:
The Six Things I'm Most Looking Forward to in the Second Half of the Trip--Rahul:
The Six Things I'm Most Looking Forward to in the Second Half of the Trip-Meg:
That's all folks. Hope everyone out there is rockin'. We miss youz. And go to tothekaraoke.blogspot.com and tell us if you're coming to see us!
--Dunny